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Are you…

  • Struggling to process the shock, anger, or sadness caused by infidelity?
  • Feeling uncertain about your relationship or whether to continue it?
  • Experiencing self-doubt, anxiety, or difficulty trusting again?
  • Finding it hard to communicate with your partner or establish healthy boundaries?
  • Searching for strategies to heal emotionally and restore connection?

Imagine if you could…

  • Process Emotional Pain

    Work through the hurt, betrayal, and confusion in a guided and structured way.

  • Rebuild Trust

    Regain confidence in yourself and in relationships through practical tools and support.

  • Restore Emotional Resilience

    Develop strategies to manage triggers, anxiety, and lingering doubts.

  • Move Forward With Clarity

    Follow a clear plan that helps you regain peace, confidence, and relational balance.

Welcome to the Naked Infidelity Trauma Recovery Program

Then Infidelity can shatter far more than trust in your partner. It can destabilise your sense of safety, identity, reality and confidence in your own judgement. The Naked Infidelity Recovery program helps you understand the impact of betrayal, process what happened, rebuild trust in yourself and make clear, grounded decisions about your relationship and future.

The Benefits of The Naked Infidelity Trauma Recovery Program

  • Specialist Infidelity, Betrayal & Relationship Support

    Receive expert, trauma-informed support from a practitioner with advanced training in psychotherapy, trauma recovery and relationship therapy, including Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Imago Relationship Therapy. Understand the psychological and relational impact of infidelity, work through betrayal and broken trust, and determine whether your path forward involves repairing the relationship or rebuilding life beyond it.

  • Personal Coaching

    Receive one-on-one support tailored to your unique situation, emotions, and goals.

  • Structured Approach

    A clear, science-backed framework helps you heal step by step so you do not feel lost, overwhelmed, or alone. This method guides you through recovery quickly and effectively without months of traditional therapy, giving you real breakthroughs in a shorter time.

  • Reputation Built on Discretion

    Your experience is handled with privacy, sensitivity, and professionalism at every stage.

Naked Infidelity Trauma Recovery Program Curriculum

Get Through the Shock

Purpose: To help you understand what is happening to you after discovering or experiencing infidelity, reduce the emotional overwhelm and create enough stability to begin making sense of what happened.

  • Understand Betrayal Trauma: Learn why infidelity can create powerful psychological and physiological reactions.
  • Recognise Your Trauma Response: Understand intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, anger, panic, numbness and emotional swings.
  • Manage the Need to Know: Work with compulsive questioning, checking, searching and replaying what happened.
  • Identify Your Triggers: Recognise places, phones, messages, absences, people, dates and situations that activate distress.
  • Regulate Before You Decide: Develop tools for managing emotional flooding before making major decisions.
  • Establish Immediate Boundaries: Identify what you need now to create psychological and relational safety.
  • Resource Yourself: Protect sleep, nutrition, movement, relationships and daily functioning during the initial crisis.

The shift: “My entire world has fallen apart” → “I can steady myself before deciding what happens next.”

Make Sense of What Happened

Purpose: To help you develop a clearer understanding of what happened without making yourself responsible for someone else’s choices or reducing a complex relationship to one event.

  • Establish the Reality: Develop enough clarity about what happened to begin processing it.
  • Understand the Affair: Explore the context and dynamics surrounding the infidelity without using them to excuse it.
  • Separate Explanation From Justification: Understand why something happened while maintaining appropriate responsibility.
  • Explore the Relationship Before the Affair: Identify strengths, vulnerabilities, disconnection and unresolved issues that existed beforehand.
  • Understand Attachment & Relationship Patterns: Explore patterns of pursuit, withdrawal, conflict, avoidance and unmet needs.
  • Challenge Self-Blame: Address “What was wrong with me?”, “Why wasn’t I enough?” and comparison with the other person.
  • Understand the Impact: Recognise what has actually been injured – trust, safety, intimacy, identity, confidence and your shared story.

The shift: “How could this happen?” → “I can understand what happened without blaming myself for another person’s choices.”

Work Through the Betrayal

Purpose: To help you process the anger, grief, fear and hurt underneath the betrayal so that what happened stops dominating your emotional world.

  • Process Trauma Hotspots: Work with the moments, discoveries and images that remain particularly distressing.
  • Work With Anger: Understand and process anger without allowing it to control your behaviour.
  • Grieve What Was Lost: Acknowledge the loss of trust, innocence, certainty and the relationship you believed you had.
  • Address Shame & Humiliation: Work through comparison, rejection and feelings of inadequacy.
  • Process Fear: Address fears of abandonment, recurrence and never being able to trust again.
  • Work With Intrusive Thoughts: Reduce the power of repetitive images, questions and mental replaying.
  • Develop Self-Compassion: Support yourself through betrayal rather than adding self-criticism to the injury.
  • Integrate the Experience: Begin allowing what happened to become something you experienced rather than something you are continually reliving.

The shift: “I can’t stop reliving it” → “This happened to me, but I don’t have to remain trapped inside it.”

Stay, Leave or Take More Time

Purpose: To help you move beyond pressure to immediately forgive, reconcile or leave, and instead make a considered decision based on your needs, values and the reality of the relationship.

  • Clarify What You Want: Separate your own wishes from the opinions of friends, family or your partner.
  • Assess Accountability: Consider whether genuine responsibility is being taken for what happened.
  • Assess Capacity for Repair: Explore honesty, empathy, transparency, remorse and willingness to change.
  • Understand Your Non-Negotiables: Identify what would need to happen for you to remain.
  • Separate Fear From Choice: Recognise when financial fears, children, loneliness, shame or dependency are driving decisions.
  • Consider Both Futures: Explore realistically what staying and leaving could each involve.
  • Take the Time You Need: Recognise that not knowing yet is also a legitimate position.
  • Make an Intentional Decision: Choose your next step based on evidence rather than panic.

The shift: “Tell me whether I should stay or leave” → “I can make a decision I understand and trust.”

Restore Trust – In Yourself and, Where Possible, Each Other

Purpose: Whether you stay together or separate, this phase helps you rebuild the trust, confidence and sense of agency that betrayal may have taken from you.

  • Rebuild Self-Trust: Restore confidence in your instincts and judgement.
  • Understand Healthy Trust: Learn that trust is rebuilt through consistent behaviour rather than promises.
  • Create Boundaries: Develop clear expectations around honesty, privacy, transparency and relationships.
  • Repair Communication: Learn to discuss difficult subjects without repeatedly escalating or shutting down.
  • Build Emotional Safety: Create conditions in which vulnerability and connection can gradually return.
  • Repair Intimacy: Where appropriate, carefully rebuild emotional and physical intimacy.
  • Develop New Relationship Patterns: Address the dynamics that need to change if the relationship continues.
  • If Separating: Rebuild confidence, boundaries and identity without requiring reconciliation for recovery.

The shift: “I’ll never trust again” → “I can learn what deserves my trust – including myself.”

Create the Relationship or Life – You Choose

Purpose: To help you move beyond organising your life around the betrayal and create a future shaped by what you have learned, what you value and what you now choose.

  • Rebuild Identity: Reconnect with who you are beyond being betrayed or being part of this relationship.
  • Redefine Your Relationship: If staying together, consciously build a relationship that is different from the one that existed before.
  • Build Forward After Separation: If leaving, develop a meaningful life that isn’t defined by what your former partner did.
  • Reconnect With Intimacy: Develop confidence around vulnerability, sexuality and emotional closeness.
  • Strengthen Relationship Standards: Understand what you now require from healthy partnership.
  • Prepare for Future Triggers: Develop strategies for anniversaries, reminders and moments of insecurity.
  • Recognise Growth: Identify learning and strength without suggesting the betrayal needed to happen.
  • Learn Forward: Take what you have learned about yourself, love, boundaries and trust into what comes next.

The shift: “This betrayal changed everything” → “It changed part of my story, but I decide what I build from here.”

Designed by a Trauma Expert

Created by Adele Theron, a trauma-informed practitioner with over 20 years’ experience supporting people through trauma, loss, relationship breakdown and major life transitions. Throughout her career, she has supported more than 7,000 people through periods of profound change, helping them understand their experiences and find a way forward.

The Naked Infidelity Trauma Recovery Program helps you understand and process the emotional impact of infidelity, work through difficult feelings and recognise the experiences that may still be affecting your trust, relationships and sense of self. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of how betrayal trauma can influence your emotions, behaviours, sense of safety and decision-making, while learning practical ways to support your recovery, rebuild confidence and move forward with greater clarity and control.

Through compassionate, evidence-informed guidance and practical tools, you’ll learn to process your experience, work through trauma triggers, rebuild emotional safety and strength, reconnect with yourself and your body, and gradually move forward with greater confidence, peace and hope.

Experience the Healing of the Naked Infidelity Trauma Recovery Program

Provide a Safe Space
We create a confidential environment where you can explore your experiences and emotions safely.

Assistance with Treatment
Through personalised coaching, you work through emotional pain, trust issues, and relationship patterns with expert guidance.

Facilitate Healing
We help you rebuild resilience, self-trust, and confidence in your relationships.

Supportive Environment
Receive compassionate and non-judgmental support throughout your healing journey.

If you are ready to reclaim trust, clarity, and emotional balance, we are here to guide you every step of the way.

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Understand the nature of affairs

50%

of all divorces involve affairs

100,000+

people are having some kind of affair every day

1,000,000+

people are engaged in some kind of affair every month

It’s extremely common: It’s a myth that there are people who have affairs, and those who don’t.
WE ARE ALL SUSCEPTIBLE

Understanding Infidelity Trauma: A Deeper Dive

Infidelity trauma is the distress experienced when betrayal occurs within a romantic relationship, manifesting as infidelity or financial betrayal. This trauma provokes responses such as loss of self-esteem, numbness, anger, guilt, difficulty controlling emotions, intrusive thoughts, and various mental and physical symptoms.

When trust is broken, emotional dysregulation can occur, activating the fight or flight mechanism. Left unprocessed, trauma reshapes core selves, making normal functioning challenging.

Understanding the dynamics of betrayal is crucial for both the betrayed partner and the wayward partner. There are clear stages that each goes through, and being aware of the signs and how to navigate them prepares you for what lies ahead.

Betrayed Partner: Process You Will Go Through

The stages for the betrayed partner often include:

1. Victim stage

  • Signs: Disbelieve, reluctance, outrage, defensiveness, sympathy-seeking, feel the right to be hurt, entitled, unearned guilt, blame/ shame/ fault finding.
  • How to shift: Shift perception from Victim/ pedestrian to passenger/ Witness, shift attention from blame to seeking accountability, have a plan in place for handling triggers.

2. Survivor stage

  • Signs: Alive but not living, surviving but not thriving, no trust, suppressed, tolerate pain but not healed pain, got to take back control, tired of no peace or happiness, control and compliance needed, anxiety, policing the offender, guarded and mistrusting, background tension, fatigued and exhausted.
  • How to shift: Must commit to survive this, must commit to the learning stage.

3. Learning stage

  • Signs: Thinking there has got to be a better way, practicing, experimenting, workshopping, open-minded, accepting help.
  • How to shift: Integrate the wisdom learnt for permanent relief, accept that learning and healing are inseparable.

4. Healing stage

  • Signs: Ready to let go of the pain and punishment, healing triggered by experiences from within, many breakthrough and breakdown moments.
  • How to shift: Process and integrate learnings, practice forgiveness.

5. Teaching stage

  • Signs: Experience becomes and testimonial and inspiration, sharing victory, ensures none of the suffering was in vain.
  • How to shift: What happened didn’t make you less, it made you more. See it as a blessing/ necessary turning point to a new life

Wayward Partner: Process You Will Go Through

The stages for the betrayed partner often include:

1. Denial/ Deception/ Guilt stage

  • Signs: Erratic behavior, irritability, disconnection, sabotage, regression, old habits (smoking, etc.), insomnia, anger, gaslighting, guilt, self-loathing.
  • How to shift: Give up excuses, stop blaming, shifting to total honesty.

2. Disclosure stage

  • Signs: Suspicion, mistrust, constant monitoring, a lot of questions, interrogations, have to explain what happened many times over.
  • How to shift: Have to end affair, stop lying and volunteer transparency.

3. Standing-in-the-storm stage

  • Signs: Live with the negative backlash and consequences, living in the wilderness, you are on eggshells, dealing with mood-swings.
  • How to shift: Develop mental toughness, lean into the discomfort, be there.

4. Learning stage

  • Signs: Keep learning, keep asking questions about why this happened. What part of yourself were you trying to reclaim in your affair?
  • How to shift: Understand all choices have consequences. Move from asking questions related to your own survival and stress relief to questions developing self-awareness.

5. Redemption stage

  • Signs: Understand that we are all susceptible, there are no mistakes/ only feedback and lessons.
  • How to shift: Restore your values and your honor with yourself and your partner.
Without proper coaching, infidelity trauma can persist, resulting in long-term anxiety, depression, and even PTSD. However, our Naked Infidelity program has empowered thousands to understand changes in themselves and their relationships, guiding them through the process of recovery and transformation

Affairs often stem from unmet needs and autopilot choices, with the mistaken pleasure giving way to guilt.

Infidelity can act as both a crisis and a crossroads, providing an escape window and a mirror for self-discovery. Our program helps you comprehend its nature and anticipate the journey ahead, whether you’re the betrayed or unfaithful partner.

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Just a few of our testimonials

Jo Dale, Clearing Away All The Old Crap

I got SO much out of it. It enabled me to explore the past in a gentle, effective way and to start to lay old negative patterns and beliefs to rest.

It was like clearing away all the old crap that was in my way.

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Ernst, Best Investment I’ve Ever Made

The money spent was the best investment I’ve ever made on myself and I’d recommend the course to anyone that finds themselves in the same situation I was in.

The coach was ultra supportive and knew her stuff. Its been over a week since I completed the course and I’m just so looking forward to the new life I’ve started building for myself.

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Teresa K, Love this effective program!

This program went right to the heart of the matter from many different approaches. My goal was to not hurt any longer than necessary and to heal more quickly

The daily assignments provided something to work on every day and it focused me with supportive coaching.

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Early Stages Following Trauma: What to Expect​

With trauma, jumpy feelings and intrusive memories are normal. While two-thirds of people see these symptoms fade, others may experience delayed negative symptoms such as:

Problem Sleeping

Difficulty concentrating or remembering

Hypervigilance

Intense memories and nightmares

Feeling physically and emotionally upset

Feeling disconnected or numb

Feelings of guilt, shame, or panic

Recovery is possible. Don’t merely endure the trauma; take control today.

Health Risks of Living with Trauma: Take Action

20
%
RISK OF HEART DISEASE

Data: Web MD study, 2019

42
%
RISK OF ADRENAL FATIGUE

Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information

56
%
RISK OF ILLNESS

Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information

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Coaching is different to therapy…​

Are your goals and those of the traditional therapist aligned?

The reality is that a professional therapist only earns income for as long as your ‘problem’ remains. They are financially incentivized for your issue to continue for as long as possible, often years. Therapy is perfect if you have complex psychological issues, addictions, very complex pasts to navigate. Coaching can be more suitable in having a programmatized approach to recovery. The problems with traditional relationship therapy are:

No Guarantee of Results – Traditional therapy has no guarantee of success

Slow – Traditional therapy takes months, often years

Limited Technology – >80% therapist only have one expertise

Expensive – Average cost is $24,888.00 – $51,943.00

Not a Specialist – Not focused on teaching valuable skills.

Coaching can be 200% faster than traditional therapy

Marriage recovery and re-creation measured in weeks, not years

Perturbation Framework*

*The Perturbation framework is a coaching methodology and a modern holistic alternative to traditional therapy. It’s used in all Naked Marriage programs. Book a Clarity call to see if coaching is a fit to save your marriage.

Traditional therapy is best suited for extreme traumatic response. The duration estimates are based on interviews with 12 leading psychotherapists
* Results are guaranteed
** Based on feedback from the Naked Marriage programs. Naked Marriage coaching programs are suited to people who want to get back to their lives using a proven education-based trauma recovery methodology.

We measure and value our success rates

*Results are measured at the start of our programs, at the end and finally 6 months later.

99%

KNOWLEDGE

90%

SKILL

95%

RELIABILITY

94%

DELIVERY

93%

FOCUS

97%

RESULTS

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